Shedding means naming and laying aside anything that will deter the person or group from focusing on God’s will as the ultimate value…

Discerning God’s Will Together
D. Morris and C. Olson

Seems like every time I get one thing shed, another one pops up. I’m always shedding something. Unlike Indifferent Spouse, I seem to feel the need to defend my ideas as if they define me. Then in retrospect, I realize that I had switched on my “raised-voice-debate” mode, where I’m having trouble hearing other people.


Time to go shed some more.